Meet Kayla.
Hi everyone! My name is Kayla and I was born (?) deaf in both ears (we will be getting into that shortly). I have had a cochlear implant in my right ear since I was 3 years old and have completely given up on faking it till I make it. I’m also a registered nurse in a Neuro ICU which has presented with its challenges!
As much as I loved figure skating, attending school, and now working, everyday presents challenges regarding my hearing that I am always trying to overcome. Despite being implanted for 20 years now, I am still learning how to maneuver my way through life.
When I first started working in an ICU, I tried so hard to hide my hearing loss, but with the billion sounds that are going on every second, I got so overwhelmed that I stopped caring. From bed alarms because a patient is trying to get out of bed to ventilator alarms because someone is fighting their ventilator, or an emergency situation where there’s about a million people in the room, my brain is constantly working in overdrive to differentiate what the sounds are and who is saying what. I started opening up about my hearing to my coworkers and explaining my situation, and I can’t even explain how much of a weight was lifted off my shoulders. I’m fortunate enough that everyone has been super understanding. Now, the only anxiety I have going into work is what in the world is going to get thrown at me that night.
Guidance for Living Deaf
My biggest recommendation, which is something that I’ve learned the hard way after all these years, is that it's seriously not worth trying to hide hearing loss. Not only does it make things more difficult on ourselves, but it leads to misunderstandings with others. There’s been situations where someone’s tried calling my name and I would keep walking because I didn’t hear them, and that probably led them to thinking I’m ignoring them. If that person knew I was deaf, they would know I didn’t hear them and not that I’m some sort of jerk. Now that’s not to say I’m 100% comfortable with my hearing loss, I still struggle to advocate for myself sometimes, but I’m 1000x better at it than in the previous years.
My cochlear implant brand is Cochlear Americas, and I am so grateful for the technology that’s evolved over the years because live listen on my phone has become my best friend. If I’m ever in a group situation, I try to remember to utilize it because it has made life so much easier. Cochlear Implants have come such a long way and they are not done evolving!!
Thank you so much for reading!! My goal was to help you realize you are not alone in this and I hope I did a good job! :) If you want to follow me on Instagram, stalk me, or just chit-chat, it is @kayla.gabriel ;). And of course, don’t forget to follow @forthedeafgirl!!